What would I do if I found out my engagement ring was a CZ? Nothing. IT’S THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS.
Doesn’t matter if it’s real or fake… Flaunt that bling! Be proud of your fiancé/husband.
A real ring? Is it on your finger? Then it is real. This is the problem with so many milsos- you can’t just be happy that he wants to marry you!
I’d rather have nothing than a lie on my
finger. Sets the tone of your marriage before it starts. Lies are lies! Propose with a ring pop it’s not about the ring but about what it represents! If it’s fake who cares but to be lied to about it then that’s what it is. Pretty simple. Fake
But if he never said “LOOK AT THIS DIAMOND RING” than is it a lie? She could have assumed it was real and he could have been too ashamed to tell her otherwiseTo add: it is called an engagement RING not an engagement DIAMOND. Just because she expected a diamond does not mean he lied. Not all engagement rings are diamond
Lies are lies and when she asked about getting it appraised the he should’ve told her without finding it out on her own. I’d appreciate the truth and wouldn’t care if it’s fake as long as I knew. Then to look stupid when getting it appraised and being told by a jeweler!
To add-marriage is not a ring it’s what it represents and that’s the problem with this all of these comments! So quick to be engaged but that doesn’t mean married! Marriage is work and must have honesty! It’s not about the size or even if it’s a diamond it’s about your future! If it starts with a lie then that sets the tone. End of story.
SHE assumed it was a diamond. What’s he supposed to do? Give her the details before letting her put it on? He’s not obligated to tell her “hey diz ring aint real diamond” because engagement rings do not HAVE to be diamonds. It was materialistic of her to assume that is what she was given and what she was entitled to get. Instead of being happy that “he proposed! he loves me!” she’s more pissed that he didn’t give her details that she didn’t NEED.
There is no cardinal rule that says she needed to receive a diamond, or that he needed to disclose that she wasn’t getting a diamond. That’s not a lie. That’s placing value on the object over the meaning, and blaming HIM for HER assumptions.
It isn’t generally normal for people to be like “Will you marry me? This is a 1.2c VVS1 diamond with serial number 1245873 that you can verify online for authenticity.” No. Because an engagement ring can be anything.
You say “marriage is not a ring”, yet you seem to think he was dishonest by not disclosing it wasn’t a ‘real ring’. When, the idea is it is a RING. He proposed with it, she said yes, making it an ENGAGEMENT ring.
"its not about the size or even if its a diamond!" but if its not a diamond he better tell you?
We don’t ask for people to specify that the ring is a real diamond, so why should we expect them to disclose that its NOT if we claim to be more focused on the meaning of the ring and not the materialism of it?
shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit! if it don;t finger green, its shiny and pretty and he picked it out and was proud and you love him it shouldnt fucking matter. My ring cost $50, sterling silver CZ.
My husband bought mine for $30 off overstock. I didn’t care. I loved it, because I loved him. I couldn’t have cared less..I didn’t even care if I had a ring, I just wanted him. Forever. Girls are crazy.
I fucking hate people. Whiney, entitled, materialistic asshole. “I’m not trying to sport a fake ring.” GTFO.
I have a diamond ring, but to be honest, I would have preferred sapphire or CZ or crystal.
Diamonds are impossible to trace and a lot of them come from less-than-favorable circumstances.
Just be glad a guy cares enough about you to be brave enough to ask your shitty ass to marry you.
I don’t see how people can’t spot the difference. Fake rings seriously look so much different than diamond ones. My first wedding ring was a small diamond and girls used to show off their bigger rings to me but little did they know all they hAd was a glorified CZ ring. Lol
This is beyond shallow and ungrateful. Sorry.
I was proposed with an arcade prize ring. Worth maybe a penny. And then he bought a cz ring just before we married because I just felt like it was a joke and maybe he wasn’t serious. So by putting a fake but more realistic ring on my finger it made me see he was serious.
I bought myself a diamond band to wear because the ring wasn’t ideal for my job but I wanted something to represent our marriage on my finger.
The patience was well kept as he got me a beautiful wedding set a year after our marriage.
It’s nice having a pretty ring on my finger but it was just as okay to wear a fake one. Marriage is the joining of two people but the ring quality really has nothing to do with it. I would hope though that the man doesn’t lie. You don’t want to build your marriage on a lie.
My ring is a band with ..Cz diamonds that was $38 from walmart. I could care less. This ring means everything to me. Plus its nice and shiny and I loooove it. ;)